Well, after the initial emotions, whether it be shock, excitement, or just plain confusion after menarche, your first period, there are always the questions, and irregular periods afterwards are just one of them. Since it's your body's first "go" at this, it may take a while for the cycles to adjust to become consistent in timing, flow, and routine. Your first period could be really heavy and last for two weeks, the second could come just weeks after the first and be really light and last for barely a day, and the third could come even six months later! It's all normal, because it could take a year or so for your body to settle on a cycle. But if you're really concerned, this blog entry is no replacement for a doctor (in other words, go see a doctor if you're really concerned).
#2: My period is taking longer than usual to come.
While you might be used to having your period come in a cycle of a certain amount of days, it's okay if it's off by a day or two, because there are many factors that could delay, or speed your period, such as:
. Pressure
. Fatigue
. Diet and appetite
. Stress
. Amount of sleep
. General health at a certain time
Also, especially if it's only your second or third period, your body will sometimes vary the cycles. However, if it turns into a skipped period, you may want to see a doctor.
#3: I completely skipped a period! Could something be wrong and could I be pregnant?
You might skip a period because:
. You just had your first period recently, and your body is trying to settle into a routine, so that's fine.
. There are personal and environmental factors that could have delayed or skipped your period. If you're under a lot of stress and pressure, not eating right (not getting the nutrition you need), not getting enough sleep, or are just experiencing malaise, you might delay and skip a period, because periods are your body's way of saying that you're healthy.
. You might have something going on that a gynecologist or doctor should check out. If something doesn't feel quite right down there, definitely see a doctor at the very least for an exam.
. You might be pregnant. This is an unlikely event, unless you are sexually active. The best thing to do if you suspect that you're pregnant is to take a pregnancy test and see a doctor (because the last time I checked, this blog doesn't have a PhD).